Eating is hindering my blessings in life.  It sounds silly, but it’s true.  I’m not talking about the basic, help the body run eating.  The kind of eating that is my stumbling block it the emotional and spiritual eating. I eat because I feel fat and I just don’t see …Click Here to continue

With the Christmas rush finally over, it is time to take a breath and . . . start getting ready for next year!   I know the decorations are still out, the leftovers are still stored in the frig, and the gifts are still piled up in the corner of …Click Here to continue

I am perfect – hear me roar!   My pastor made the mistake of asking who in the room was perfect and I was quick to raise my hand.  “In the blood of Jesus, I am perfect.”  He wasn’t impressed (and used me as a reference for many months to …Click Here to continue

I will never change for anyone again.   There were too many bruises and pain from the past.  If there was something different someone wanted in me then he would just have to go somewhere else to find it.  To paraphrase a semi-famous philosopher, “I was who I was and …Click Here to continue

There are three simple keys to making any relationship work: 1.      submission  2.      sacrifice 3.      serving   I didn’t say that they were easy keys, I said they were simple.  If you focus on what YOU are or what YOU are not doing in a relationship, you will find that …Click Here to continue

I have always felt fat.   At twelve, I started developing curves.  I was not like the other girls that I saw around me or like the pictures in the magazine.  Add to that my mother being a “beauty queen,” and you can see how my obsession with dieting got …Click Here to continue

I’m not normal.  Just ask anyone who has ever met me.  The words used to describe me are more likely to be unusual, weird, or just plain bizarre.  I’m willing to accept these descriptions because I do tend to walk to a different beat.  I’m proud to be peculiar.   …Click Here to continue

About Me I grew up trying to force the world to see things my way. It was always about getting others to change. Then I discovered that the only thing I could actually change was Me. It was a shock to my system and required a complete overhaul of how …Click Here to continue